Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Would You Report Your Child To Authorities?




On Christmas day, Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab attempted to blow up a Detroit-bound commercial airline by strapping explosives to his underwear. Although Abdulmutallab alleged attempted fail, what I found most interesting was his father reported concern about his son’s “radicalization” to the US Embassy.

I found this a very courageous step by a father especially in light of America’s war on terrorism. For all his father knew, intelligence officials could have utilized this information to the severe detriment of his son. Although intelligence officials found the information insufficient, I wonder how many other parents would have taken such a step not knowing the consequences their children would ultimately face.

For me, this is a great example of parenting up and putting the needs of the whole against the individual needs or desire to protect your child as a parent but I wonder how many other parents would turn their child in when aware of information about their child that could pose dangers to to others?

What would you have done in that situation? What would you do if you learned your child was a threat to others or engaged in illegal behavior? Would you report them to officials?

Friday, January 1, 2010

What Parenting Scandal In This Decade Enraged You Most?



I was just reading an article on iVillage and it was discussing the parenting scandals of the decade. The article listed amongst the scandals the following:

Michael Jackson hanging Prince Michael II aka Blanket over a balcony railing

Alec Baldwin calling his daughter a thoughtless little pig

Richard and Mayumi Heene and their Balloon Boy hoax

Britney Spears drive with her son on her lap

Nadya Suleman the Octomom having 8 kids out of wedlock and with no job



I personally think Balloon Boy was the worst. After all, what parent has their child lie and remain hidden for hours to get a reality tv show. What do you think was the parenting scandal of the decade?



To read the iVillage story, go to http://parenting.ivillage.com/slideshow/parenting/top_10_parenting_scandals_of_the_decade/